memes that are still #relevantAF in 2023

Each of these memes are like my featured pic — like a rainbow that comes out after a storm. Feel free to refer back as often as you wish.

Fair warning: I will refresh this as I see fit. 🙂

Life Advice

Don't make excuses for shitty people. You can't put a flower in an asshole and call it a vase.

If someone shows you who they are the first time around, believe them. This lesson has taken me so long to finally learn but I’m really glad I came to my senses about a lot of people this past year and will be damned if I let them back into my life. I’m not going to sit around and try to rationalize why they’re like this.

THAT IS AN ASSHOLE.

All I can do is keep my vibration high and radiating strong and everyone else who isn’t what I stand for which leads me to…

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lighthouse in the night

lighthouse lifestyle

I called it months ago. 

2021 continues to be the Year of the Level Up

I realize it’s been months since my last post but I promise you, it has been time well-spent. I’ve been letting go of the struggle and doing what feels fun, purposeful, and elevating

As a result, I feel like I’ve finally opened myself up to receiving from the Universe. ✨ A couple of weeks ago, I stumbled upon a really awesome Instagram post about lighthouses. Here we go:

“Lighthouses don’t go running all over an island looking for boats to save; they just stand there shining.” – Anne Lamott

💡💡💡Ding ding ding! Stand back, I’ve figured it out! 💡💡💡 Read More

Blonde wearing a dress on the beach being her true self

my greatest power = being my true self

The pandemic has helped me rediscover that being my true self = my greatest power. ⚡

Besides the obvious because-it-feels-better, it’s also because things *work out even better than I could ever imagine* when I’m being myself.

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free flowing ocean waves along shoreline

letting freedom ring & setting myself free

July 4th is a day I celebrate freedom and here’s my favorite Independence Day one-liner. 😂

I see Celsius and raise you degrees of #FREEDOM!

This year, July 4th has a special meaning because I’ve decided to pursue forgiveness. 

This all started because my coach called me out for not having done “the homework” as I talked about about my wins this week on our call this morning. I shared my wins with the coaching group but I was angry. 😬

It’s true.

I haven’t done “the work” because I just can’t be motivated to work on the computer when I’m chained to it for 40 hours a week. 🙈

I realize what a cop out excuse this is as I’m typing this out now but I have my reasons for not wanting to do “the work”. 

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girl swimming under water

now what?

Doing the Unthinkable 

Well, I did it –

The perfect storm presented itself to me and I took my calculated leap of faith. That’s right, I walked away from my known hell to seek unknown heavens and I am proud of this. #micdrop 🎤

I spent the first 24 hours re-living it with Darryl and the ones closest to me. At first, I was really angry and resentful but my coach gave me a way to frame all of this. She told me,

Everyone played a perfect role for you to get to this point. Forgive them. They helped you discover what your true gifts are and the faster you feel better, the faster the the crowd you’re meant to serve appears. ⚡

She’s absolutely right. 

Getting Clear

My vision gets a little clearer each day. I have about 80% of my grand vision hammered out and I think that’s plenty. As Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. says,  

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step. ✨

I made room for even bigger blessings in my life and now, it’s time for me to go swim. 🌈

The featured image in this post sang to me. She made the leap, now she must rely on her skills to navigate this vast open sea full of adventure and treasure.

Ok, so now what?

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